(socially appropriate, non-crass how to ask chicks to fall asleep to you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – ”Netflix and Chill” was initially our ’idea’, but now it’s conventional!
While you both read Good Looking Loser if you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you. I invested so many Saturday nights at home within my 20’s. I regret it too.
If you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other guys interact with random girls check out our program if you can’t talk to girls at night, just go out and see. Even though you do not state a term the complete time – it is better for your ”game” than reading my disgraceful creepy blog.
I did a video clip (see below) and wasn’t planning to perform a post with this ’common sense’ subject but I decided it absolutely was a good indisputable fact that everyone else see this.
Guys that ”research” sex/dating in the Internet frequently experience ’information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or have no idea where to find away where in actuality the girls appears.
They likewise have taken in a lot of ”game” disinformation that Good searching Loser is individually responsible for reversing.
I am sure you have seen those ”Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or ”Will You have intercourse beside me?” viral YouTube videos where some guy asks 100 girls should they will sleep with him. Frequently he asks issue while the very initial thing he states.
As an example –
(never bother watching these in complete)
In some cases the girls begin to see the camera, in some cases maybe not. It doesn’t actually matter.
The outcome are exactly the same in every the videos –
>98% for the girls say ”No.”
Here you will find the two methods –
Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube ”social experiments” – what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will CONSTANTLY get you further, faster)
4:15 ”can you want to get together for a glass or two ?” ”Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(do not suggest it is a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cool approach
7:25 ”Do you realy want to come over and watch a film free new brazzers?” ”You should visit and now we’ll view a movie .”
8:20 ”Normal” dudes that Get Laid a great deal use each of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: ”seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on just how much ”game” actually matters.
12:00 which can be better? Spoken or physical stuff?
12:45 getting faster using the physical stuff.
15:00 utilize both: ask woman to meet for a drink, then her to come over for the movie/drink.
no. 1 Offer to generally meet for a glass or two
(”You want to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get yourself a lot of pussy, may be the single most utilized line into the history of the world.
Every girl into the universe (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend product) knows this will be an invite for future sex.
It will be the universal, courteous, socially acceptable invite for sex.
As a potential boyfriend and withholds her pussy until you are emotionally invested so you don’t think she’s a slut if you are looking to Get Laid, this is a much better alternative than asking a girl to ”dinner” so she starts looking at you.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think ”he’s most likely just looking to get me personally drunk”, will ironically completely enable you to do this – if they’re sexually available and DTF.
Lots of dudes are frightened to make use of this proposition since it’s ”overused” or ”too normal”.
Which is ridiculous, the need to be creative/witty is definitely insecurity and social inexperience.
(i am here, trust me)
Other people are scared that girls will think ”this person really wants to rape me”.
Emotionally healthier girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
Simply trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF girl will likely not turn down a polite invite to obtain a glass or two if she likes you with you.
I completely encourage one to utilize this proposition EACH TIME before you take a woman’s number.
no. 2 Offer to view a Movie/Hangout (at your home)
(”the trend is to visit tonight and we’ll grab/watch a film and go out?”)
If ”grabbing a drink” is the no. 1 idea of all-time, ”watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It may be no. 1 really, it’s this that every person whom Gets Laid in university uses if they aren’t at parties.
(but it’s often the ’after party’ pretense)
Just like the prior proposition, girls realize ”watch a movie” to be an invite for intercourse (or at the very least some type of messing around).
Like ”getting a drink”, the ”watch a movie/hangout” idea is socially acceptable, courteous rather than too ahead.
Possibly it is apparent but you are proposing to ”watch a movie”, ”pick up a film” (go out) and never ”see a film” or ”go to a film” (date).
Make that clear.
(it usually is when you say ”hangout”)
The invite is just a excuse that is socially acceptable the lady to come over and fuss – whenever you want.
If you should be ”getting a drink” with a woman (or end up on an even more traditional date) you can make use of this pretense to obtain the girl to come over afterward.
All girls know very well what it indicates.
Girls know this and can come over looking means hotter than when they were just going to watch a movie.
A ”movie/hangout” may be the universal socially acceptable means for getting a lady to come over, but these options are acceptable too –
Come over so we’ll chill.
Come over and we also’ll earn some food while having some drinks.
Come over and now we’ll just chill within the tub that is hot.
Come over and we also’ll smoke weed.
Come over and we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are certainly not necessary she is your fuckbuddy (just tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful after you have fucked the girl and.
You do not need just about any pretenses compared to those 2.
How/Why Does This ”Work”!?
Considering that the girl likes you and really wants to have sexual intercourse to you.
She’s usually simply waiting for the opportunity to do this.
Preferably, your ex should ALREADY KNOW JUST what you’re searching (intercourse, not just a girlfriend) for when you meet her, however these propositions will leave no doubt.
This is the reason after you meet them that I don’t believe in garbage like ”text game” or ”working on” girls. Even in the instances that are small it might appear to operate, it is scarcely efficient and odds are – your ex ALREADY liked you.
The next occasion you need to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a ”drink” or ”movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You’ll receive your solution.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of ”verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(still – you will need to get confident with it, spoken testing will not be just like physical screening + tiny talk)
Once per week, some body asks getting a woman to come over or wonders the way in which to step up a ”hang out” in the place of a romantic date.
If this is good sense for your requirements (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times) – then that is very good news.
It’s likely that – you’ve got already been Getting Laid and ideally this tangled up some loose ends.
You now have the CORRECT answer to if it wasn’t common sense –
Just What do i actually do to meet (and never date) a woman?
This will be as simple you- she will jump at the chance to get a drink/movie and chill with you as it gets and when a girl likes.